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What Losing Your Job Takes: The Psychological Impact of Job Loss
The same year I became a mother, my husband lost his job. He held a master’s degree in chemistry and managed a laboratory, and just before our daughter was born, his supervisor had given him a performance review with satisfactory marks. All was going well and nothing indicated his job was at risk, or so we thought. Our baby was born on a Friday in early summer. My husband took that day off, the following Monday, and returned to work on Tuesday (yes, that's a total of 2 days o
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1 day ago3 min read


Why Telling Anxiety to “Go Away” Doesn’t Work (and what helps instead)
When anxiety shows up, many of us respond by saying: “Stop worrying.”“Calm down.”“There’s no reason to feel this way.” But telling anxiety to go away doesn’t work — just like telling yourself you’re not hungry when you are. Both hunger and anxiety are signals from the body , not problems to eliminate. Anxiety and Hunger Are Nervous System Signals Hunger is your body’s way of saying it needs fuel. Anxiety is your nervous system’s way of saying something feels unsafe, uncertain
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Jan 93 min read


What Is an EMDR Intensive - and How Can It Help You Get Unstuck
If you feel stuck in patterns you can’t seem to move past—no matter how much you talk about them or try to understand them—there may be more happening beneath the surface. Emotional overwhelm, persistent triggers, or feeling constantly on edge are often signs that your nervous system is still carrying unresolved experiences. An EMDR intensive offers a focused way to address what’s keeping you stuck and help your system find relief.
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Jan 73 min read


Why 2025 Felt Mentally Hard — and How to Care for Yourself in 2026
As 2025 comes to a close, many people share a similar reflection: “That year took more out of me than I expected. Not necessarily because of one defining crisis, but because of a steady accumulation of stress, uncertainty, and emotional fatigue. If you felt more drained, anxious, disconnected, or emotionally stretched this year, you weren’t alone. From a mental health perspective, 2025 placed many people under sustained pressure—often quietly, and invisibly. Why 2025 Felt So
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Jan 13 min read


The Impact of Couples Counseling on Relationships: Exploring Relationship Counseling Benefits
When relationships hit a rough patch, it can feel like you're navigating a maze without a map. You might wonder if things will ever get better or if the love you once shared can be rekindled. This is where the gentle guidance of relationship counseling benefits can make a profound difference. Imagine having a safe space where both of you can express your feelings, understand each other better, and learn tools to strengthen your bond. It’s not just about fixing problems but re
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Dec 29, 20254 min read


How to Get Started with Online Therapy: Exploring Telehealth Therapy Benefits
Starting therapy can feel like stepping into a new world. You might wonder if it’s the right time, or if it will really help. Maybe you’re curious about how therapy fits into your busy life or how it works when it’s done online. The good news is that therapy has evolved, and telehealth therapy benefits make it easier than ever to access support from the comfort of your own space. Let’s walk through what you need to know to begin this journey with confidence and care. Understa
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Dec 10, 20254 min read


Effective Trauma Therapy Methods: Healing with Heart and Hope
When life shakes your foundation, the path to healing can feel overwhelming. You might wonder, How do I begin to mend the invisible wounds? Or, Is there a way to feel safe again inside my own skin? The journey through trauma is deeply personal, yet you are not alone. There are gentle, effective methods designed to help you reclaim your sense of peace and strength. Let’s explore some of these approaches together, with warmth and understanding. Exploring Trauma Therapy Method
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Dec 10, 20254 min read


Toxic Positivity
His words looped on repeat in my head as I drove out of the University parking lot. “I feel like the weight of the world is off my...
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Aug 25, 20212 min read


Is Codependency Still a Thing?
The other day, while in the kitchen, my husband walked in and asked me, “Is codependency still a thing?” I lit up, as I love discussing...
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Jul 2, 20215 min read


5 Ways to Manage Worry
1. Contain worry If you find yourself worrying throughout the day, keep post-it notes or a journal nearby and write down worries as they...
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Apr 16, 20212 min read


How to Create A Mental Safe/Secure Place
In times that feel uncertain, creating a safe/secure place in our minds can help bring about a sense of peace. Designing a safe place...
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Apr 16, 20211 min read


10 Ways to Help with Daily Functioning during COVID-19
Having difficulty functioning during this stressful year? Try these steps to help focus and cope daily: 1. Find a safe/secure place. •...
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Apr 16, 20212 min read
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